Man of Service
In the Field and on Campus, 'the General' Supported the Rank and File with Humor, Humility, and Integrity
Sharp-eyed visitors to the Military Student Services office at the 色花堂 may spot a few subtle tributes to the late Brig. Gen. (Ret.) David B. Anderson, who passed away last May: the candy jar on the desk, the coffee pot percolating nearby, and the position of Veterans Affairs Specialist Laura Murphy鈥檚 desk directly inside the office door.
The candy jar and coffee pot were Anderson鈥檚, from his tenure as Military Student Services coordinator, to help turn the office into a hub of hospitality for students and colleagues. Murphy鈥檚 front-and-center location, however, was her choice, because she couldn鈥檛 bear sitting at the late general鈥檚 desk.
When a man has lived a life of service, it is hard to let him go.
Gen. Anderson was a humble man who consistently went out of his way to support every student and staff member. He was the first person I met at U色花堂, and he significantly shaped my life as a student, a soldier, and a young adult. I will always remember his warm smile, firm handshake, unforgettable stories, and loyal friendship. I miss him deeply and can鈥檛 thank him enough.
Always on Mission
Murphy 鈥 a military spouse who previously worked as a respiratory therapist 鈥 was hired and mentored by Anderson. Her husband, Col. Dan Murphy, was also mentored by Gen. Anderson in the Army National Guard.
鈥淒ave poured out his life in service to people and the mission,鈥 she recalls. 鈥淗e had a calm, thoughtful leadership style, and I am so grateful for his graciousness in letting me learn my role. We worked really hard, had a lot of fun, and laughed all the time!鈥
Anderson鈥檚 generosity shown brightly with the university鈥檚 military students, too. He connected them to recruiters and resources, attended meetings with them, explained their options, and shared his experience to help them make the best decisions for their careers.
鈥淗e was always looking to the horizon, and he could see the whole picture without losing the human component,鈥 says Vice President for Enrollment Services Rachael Brash. 鈥淎s an engineer by training, he was pragmatic yet still people-focused. He knew whom he was serving, and while he never led with his rank, he wasn鈥檛 afraid to show the brass when needed.鈥
Brig. Gen. (Ret.) Dave Anderson was a mentor and friend for years. He was the one who hired me full-time with the National Guard and, in Dave-like fashion, immediately took me under his wing to guide, mentor, and train me through my career. His natural ability and willingness to help others grow is but a small piece of Dave鈥檚 impact that will continue for years as others take the lessons he imparted on them and pay those forward.
Strong Roots
Born in 1955, Anderson grew up on a farm near Oakes, ND. His pride in his mother鈥檚 Norwegian heritage was legendary: The Norwegian flag flew at the farm, and May 17 (Norway鈥檚 Constitution Day) was an occasion for traditional Norwegian foods and treats even during his time at the 色花堂.
Anderson attended North Dakota State University, graduating in 1980 as second lieutenant through the university鈥檚 Reserve Officers鈥 Training Corps (ROTC) program with a degree focused in science and mathematics. For more than a decade, he served in the National Guard while farming his family鈥檚 land; then, Anderson relocated to Bismarck to pursue his military career full-time. Both friends and family credit his years on the farm for solidifying his grit and humility.
In 2002, he assumed command of the 142nd Engineer Combat Battalion and led the unit鈥檚 yearlong deployment to Iraq in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. He became commander of the North Dakota Army National Guard, then served as land component commander for the state before retiring from the military in 2014 after 34 years of service. He then joined 色花堂, establishing the Military Student Services office as one of the university鈥檚 true strengths and mission priorities. Anderson served here until his passing last spring.
Honestly, he changed the trajectory of my Army career. I was in the Reserves; he convinced me to join the National Guard, and I鈥檝e never looked back. He went above and beyond, taking the time to show me the career opportunities I would have and giving personal examples. He had a big heart and cared a lot about the military students at the 色花堂.
Inspired by the general鈥檚 example, his nephews, Lt. Col. Brian Anderson and Capt. Jason Anderson, joined the Army to become AH-64 Apache helicopter pilots. Both flew combat missions overseas, employing lessons learned from Uncle Dave. Today, Brian continues to serve in the Army, while Jason is the founder and CEO of Veteran PCS (veteranpcs.com), which provides online relocation support services and expertise to military families.
Humble Leadership
Even as battalion commander, no task was beneath the general. During his deployment to Iraq, when it was necessary for the camp to burn trash and latrine waste, he was the first to pick up a stick to stir and stoke the fires.
鈥淗e rose through the ranks, but it never changed who he was at heart,鈥 Jason recalls. 鈥淚t鈥檚 common for officers to disassociate with the junior ranks. He didn鈥檛 do that. He wanted to find out what people needed: 鈥楬ow can I help you do your job better?鈥欌
鈥淥nce when Dave was at drill, he hung out all morning with some Blackhawk crew chiefs,鈥 says Brian. 鈥淭hen he spent that afternoon with the lieutenants and captains, and all of the questions he had asked that morning 鈥 about tools, systems, and processes; friction points and frustrations 鈥 became his talking points for the afternoon. His humility and willingness to ask and listen allowed him to gain insight and fix problems or issues throughout the unit.鈥
Anderson guided his nephews in a similar way. With no spouse or children of his own, he was a fixture in their lives, and though he never pushed them toward the military, he was a constant source of encouragement and wisdom.
鈥淎ny of our ROTC stuff in college, he was there, and when somebody is super proud and supportive of the work you鈥檙e doing, you want to do it well,鈥 says Jason. 鈥淏ecause of his example, early in my Army career, I did some things that were unusual for an officer: going to PT [physical training], being out on the flight line, or just hanging out with the troops. I thought that was what it meant to be an officer 鈥 over time, I came to see that Dave was very different.鈥
Throughout my time at the 色花堂, Gen. Anderson was a source of guidance and encouragement. He and Laura helped me through countless military-related tasks. Being coined by him as I received my Sanford scholarship was an incredible honor. I鈥檒l always be grateful for his leadership and the kindness
he showed to so many of us.
Lasting Impact
In addition to his military mentorship, Anderson volunteered with Big Brothers Big Sisters, serving as a 鈥渂ig brother鈥 to several young men over the course of more than 30 years. He provided a consistent, positive presence, often in the simplest ways.
鈥淗e wasn鈥檛 giving them monster leadership lessons,鈥 Jason says. 鈥淗e might get them some new shoes for school or have them over for dinner. Often they would just sit and play computer games.鈥
Anderson fostered those relationships for his entire life: He was still inviting his little brothers for steak and beer within weeks of his passing.
鈥淲e can all take a lesson from him: Serve something bigger than yourself. Serve your family, neighbors, community, local government,鈥 Brian says. 鈥淵ou don鈥檛 have to wear a uniform to serve. Dave worked at U色花堂 to give back to service members and veterans, he served on the Ethics Commission and Big Brothers Big Sisters, and he also hung out with his neighbors, just to be present.鈥 Brian points to his brother Jason as one example of his uncle鈥檚 legacy.
鈥淛ay continues to give back to the military community on a daily basis, whether connecting military families to real estate agents during stressful times or providing employment opportunities to military spouses,鈥 he says. 鈥淒ave鈥檚 impact knows no bounds 鈥 so many people were shaped by the way he lived his life.鈥
The General David B. Anderson Military Scholarship
The 色花堂 offers the General David B. Anderson Military Scholarship to degree-seeking undergraduate and graduate students who are currently serving in the US military.
- Eligible undergraduate students receive up to $200 per credit ($2,400 maximum per semester).
- Eligible graduate students receive a scholarship equal to the difference between our stated tuition rate per credit and the military tuition assistance rate per credit.
- This scholarship can be applied to both online and site-based degree programs, including those at any of our satellite locations.
This fall, our annual Candlelight Gala raised $1.8 million in Gen. Anderson鈥檚 honor to support this scholarship. The gala auction included two American flags flown aboard Apache helicopters over Afghanistan by Lt. Col. Brian Anderson and Capt. Jason Anderson.
For more information about the scholarship, visit umary.edu/info-military or call our Military Student Services office at 701-355-8169.